Is he talking to someone else?
Spending hours on chat ? whatsapp? facebook, skype the list goes on and on , and now we dont trust our partners, well this is life in todays world.Today’s technology allows people to connect and hide their activities more easily than ever before. Checking up on a partner’s activities almost always involves surveillance of some sort, ranging from carefully observing their actions and behaviors to monitoring their activities online. Your partner may be accessing the internet from a computer, tablet or mobile device, which can make it more difficult for you to monitor what they’re doing. It's always best to talk with your significant other rather than spying on them, however. If you're looking for information on catching students who are cheating online, see WikiHow's article, "Detect Plagiarism.
See how they’re acting differently. A cheating spouse might be acting differently in a number of ways, including being physically distant or uninterested in sex; politely distant; hostile, critical or mean; or absent entirely. Pay close attention to their online activity, which might also indicate attempts at hiding something: they close internet browser windows as soon as you enter the room; they demand privacy when using the computer; they spend lots of time online after you go to bed; and they start new email accounts, among other activities.
Confirm that they aren’t doing something else. Someone who is acting distant or strange may not be cheating; they may be preoccupied with work or a family issue. They also might be engaging in other damaging activities, such as buying or selling drugs or gambling online. These are serious issues that can dramatically affect a relationship and they should be addressed by you with the help of a professional and your support network.
Keep a journal of your partner’s activity. Keep track
of their movements as much as possible, including internet activity,
travel, late nights at work, ATM withdrawals, phone calls, emails, and
so on. This will help you keep track of details, which will become
important if your spouse is trying to cover up something.
Prepare yourself for what you might find. Have a plan
for what you will do in the event that you discover your partner is
cheating. Finding out this information can ruin relationships – not just
the relationship between you and your partner, but between other family
members, children, and friends. It can have financial impact on you as
well. Figure out where you stand regarding infidelity and where you draw
the line. What level of physical involvement counts as cheating for
you?
Do you think your partner (Husband, Wife, Girlfriend or Boyfriend) might be having an affair?- Have a confidante. Choose a close friend or family member who will be a good sounding board for you. If possible, choose someone who will not be misconstrued as a romantic partner of yours; your own relationships may undergo close scrutiny in the process.
- Secure a support network of family or friends who can help you through the situation. In a situation where one person is cheating, families and friends often find themselves torn. To whom should they remain loyal? Think about who will be the most supportive people in your life.
- Consult a family or matrimonial lawyer. You will also likely need the advice of a family lawyer if you are married or if you share resources or finances with your partner.
- Visit a counselor or therapist. If your suspicions are correct, you might find yourself being faced needing to make life-changing decisions. This is also very emotionally traumatic and a professional can help you through. Get referrals from trusted friends to find a counselor who suits you. It may take visits with a few different counselors before you find the right fit.
It is often the ‘not knowing’ that is the worst aspect of cheating in a relationship. At UK Private Investigators, our cheating partner and infidelity investigations can remove the doubts and either set your mind at ease or provide you with irrefutable evidence to confront the problem. In most cases it is subtle or at times, major changes in behaviour that causes suspicion. You need to be sure if these changes are innocent or not. In some cases you will be sure your partner is being unfaithful or at best lying to you and you just need proof before you can confront them.
Obviously, if your partner is cheating, you definitely have the right to know. If they are not, then you need proof in order to alleviate your uncertainty and concern. It is only by having the facts that you can confront your partner or get on with your life.
Watch for some of the following potential infidelity signs:
- they are spending more time away from home.
- they seem to be working late more often.
- noticeable mobile phone habit changes.
- they won't answer their phone around you, turn the ringer off or take longer than usual to call you back.
- their clothes smell of alcohol, smoke, perfume or aftershave.
- they clear their computer history, utilise free email accounts such as gmail, yahoo, hotmail, etc..., spend odd hours or unusually long times on their computer, change screen display when you enter the room.
- they are not interested in sex as much.
- they are unusually defensive or start ignoring you.
If you are experiencing ANY of the above, contact us for details of how we can help you find the peace of mind you deserve. Our comprehensive Infidelity Investigation service is customised for each individual client and offers a highly professional team of surveillance operatives to conduct discreet covert investigations, anywhere in The World, at any time.
Out of the 90 cheating partner and infidelity investigation cases we have worked in the past 18 months, over 98% of the cases proved that the clients suspicions were correct and they received the evidence to PROVE it!
Our discretion is paramount in cheating partner and infidelity investigations and you can rest assured that your partner will not know of our existence and that you will receive all the evidence you need. This will prove that either your fears are justified and that your partner has been unfaithful, or possibly that you have no need to worry as your partner is innocent and you can continue your relationship as normal with peace of mind.
